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Below is a
list of positive qualities and characteristics and their antonyms
or opposites.
- Read the
list and decide where you see yourself - does your character
fit totally into the left-hand column or do you have a combination
of both?
- Which side
lists the qualities most like you?
- Is there
room for improvement with some of the qualities you see yourself as
having?
- Read it
with curiosity and an open-minded approach.
- Do not be
hard on yourself, instead, be honest.
There are
many more words that could be included; this is just a simple
exercise in personal observation.
If you
believe there could be some improvement,
contact us and together we will
build the list you desire.
As you read
the list, preface each word with:
Do I
have ..... or Am I
.....
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QUALITY/CHARACTERISTIC
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ANTONYM/OPPOSITE
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CONFIDENCE
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TIMIDITY,
SHYNESS
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POSITIVE
BELIEFS
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NEGATIVE
BELIEFS
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SELF-ASSURANCE
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INSECURITY
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HUMILITY
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ARROGANCE
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CERTAINTY
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UNCERTAINTY
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CONVICTION
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DOUBT
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ACCEPTANCE
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REJECTION
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KNOWING
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INNOCENT
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PRACTICED
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UNPRACTICED
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ENERGETIC
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LAZY
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CONFIDENT
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UNSURE,
SHY, MEEK
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CAPABLE
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INCAPABLE
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ACCOMPLISHED
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INEPT
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GRATEFUL
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UNGRATEFUL
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GRACE
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AWKWARDNESS
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PEACEFUL
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HOSTILE,
VIOLENT
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GRACIOUSNESS
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RUDENESS
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AWARENESS
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UNCONSCIOUS
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TRUST
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DISTRUST
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PRESENCE
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ABSENCE
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PATIENCE
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IMPATIENCE
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MINDFULNESS
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MINDLESS
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QUIET
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LOUD
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MATURE
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IMMATURE
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HONOURABLE
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DISHONOURABLE
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WATCHFUL
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INATTENTIVE
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TALENTED
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UNTALENTED
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STRENGTH
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WEAKNESS
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CALM
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ANGRY
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COMPOSED
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RUFFLED
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RELAXED
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STRESSED
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BEING
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NOT
BEING
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PRESENT
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NOT
PRESENT
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BALANCED
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UNBALANCED
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PERCEPTION
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IGNORANCE
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PLEASANT
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OBNOXIOUS
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CONSIDERATE
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INCONSIDERATE
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COMPASSIONATE
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UNFEELING
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JOYFUL
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UNPLEASANT
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ALTRUISTIC
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SELFISH
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OPEN-MINDED
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OPINIONATED
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COURAGEOUS
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VICTIMISED
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STRONG
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WEAK
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POWERFUL
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INSIGNIFICANT
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INTELLIGENCE
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LACKING
COMMON SENSE
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LIGHT
HEARTED
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SERIOUS
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GENEROUS
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TIGHTFISTED
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GIVING
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UNKIND
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HONESTY
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DISHONESTY |
"Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an
understanding of ourselves."
C.G. Jung
PERCEIVE♦
BELIEVE♦
ACT♦
ACHIEVE
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